Do I Trust You?

Trust in a relationship is a really big step. Once you and your partner start to trust each other, your relationship moves up a whole new level.

In my experiences, I find it hard to trust people. I have been hurt- way too many times. That is why I keep everything in, I don't want to get hurt again but this pushes a lot of people away. This year, I have tried really hard to trust people quickly and I have got to say, this has made me happy. I have met amazing friends, have a great boyfriend, have a good relationship with my mom, have seen and been the first person my sisters come to for advice, and have a good relationship with my grandma.

But trust in relationships is a whole different ball park. Guys are good at keeping things from their girlfriends. They don't return calls; give vague answers as to what they were doing, and just hiding everything from their girl. I'm the kind of girlfriend that completely understands that I do not need any of your passwords for anything, and should only get a key to your place when you are ready to give it to me. Things like these are so minuscule.

Trust is very hard to gain and once it’s gained and broken it is very hard to gain back. MEN us WOMEN get suspicious when you are being vague and sneaky… THAT is when we lose TRUST. Just saying.


So take these relationships easy, and learn to enjoy the person and their quirks and then start trusting them. There is NO time frame, but be open to trust them, with the possibility that your heart might be broken.


..... Love Tanya