Since alot of my blogging does revolve around relationships, I wonder if there was ever a manual for dating. So I thought maybe I should come up with one.
Say what you mean, mean what you say
Men and women sometimes do not do this because they are afraid of their feelings. Saying what you mean does not mean saying any idea that comes into your head. It means representing your intentions honestly.
Be up front at the right time. - Be honest. If you are in a relationship with someone, do not cheat. Do not use them. Do not stay in a relationship if you describe it as 'it's complicated'. Figure out what the other person wants and get that out in the open.
Take criticism, leave the rest.
Sometimes you'll inadvertently do something someone doesn't like. They'll let you know about it. Know what to do with that? Learn the lesson - figure out what's true in what she's saying - and ignore the heat. Someone getting upset with you does not mean whatever they're saying is untrue. Take it on the chin like a man and don't call her names.
Do not hold a grudge.
Men and women are both different species - some women get more emotional and vice versa. Learn to understand what they have done and why.
Honesty.
My biggest pet peeve, is when I'm lied to. I'll admit, I have been hurt in the past. Many times, and it hurts when you invest time and patience, and yourself into a relationship with no honesty. Men, women be honest at all times, no matter what the cost.
Any more to add to this relationship 'manual'?? ?
..... Tanya
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