10 Things I Have Learned This Month

This hiatus from blogging has made me learn many things about myself and the person I want to be.

Here is my list:

10. I do not need to scream in arguments to get my point across. (Everyone's ears will now thank me)
9. I need to stop using guilt in trying to get my boyfriend or anyone else to do things for me. (This is unhealthy)
8. I am a GOOD person, and I will only get BETTER with age. (Like fine wine)
7. Not everyone is going to like what I write about, not everyone is going to like me. (And I really don't care, I like me, the people I care about most like me- soooo pffttt.. I don't need your validation)
6. I have a heart, I have emotions, I am emotional, and sometimes I will cry. Crying is okay, as long as it's not every single moment.
5. I notice the elephant in the room way before it even comes. I have noticed that I have been able to tell when people are uncomfortable therefore I am able to diffuse the situation and get everyone content.
4. I DO NOT NEED TO SPEND EVERY FREE WAKING MOMENT I HAVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND. We are both Aries', and it is my firm belief that we both like to over load ourselves with work, and we are both trying to do things that we love and want to do. However, we try to fit in as much time together as we can. Just because I don't see him everyday doesn't mean he doesn't think about me, or that we don't talk. We talk literally everyday, and I think we have one of the healthiest relationships out there.
3. I don't hate my job, I dislike the politics behind it and I dislike how other employees are being treated. I have spoken up, so only time will tell. We need a change.
2. Strong relationships will build, organically, and does not need to be forced.
1. No matter what, always keep smiling and letting the world in. I know CORNY, but it's true. I don't want to be a jilted person, ever so I am going to continue to roll with the punches, and not hold grudges. However, you break my trust, and I cut you. Simple.

What have you learned this month?

xoxo,
Tanya